my movements toward consiciousness

Re-evaluate how I live. Persuit of truth. I am finally realizing what torrments me inside. My internal conflicts are real. What I define as values are different from the way I live my life today. Rather than lower my standards to the way I live, in efforts to resolve the disharmony I feel inside, I think that I should change my behavior in living up to what I value and beliefs. Only then will I find true happiness. This is my journey, by myself. This is my road less traveled.

Shhh…I’m going to let you in on a secret

Word is around the knitting circle is this; Romance is not about all “the stuff” or “the setting”; it’s really about fascination. If you’re not interested, intrigued, and fascinated with your husband or wife, it doesn’t matter how much money you spend on the trappings of romance.

I could be wrong here, but it’s definitely holds true for me. After all, when we are truly fascinated by the one we chose to marry, everything else seems meaningless. No need for the box chocolates or overpriced roses that will wilt for the the week is over. Simply conscientiously choosing to be fascinated or intrigued with that person is very powerful. Pair this with guarding your heart from outside intruders, [ co-workers, workaholism, kids, toxic friendships, addictions ], is automatic way in making your marriage last through the common pitfalls of today’s society.

And that’s worth your time in practicing like money in the bank.

XXOXX


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