Word is around the knitting circle is this; Romance is not about all “the stuff” or “the setting”; it’s really about fascination. If you’re not interested, intrigued, and fascinated with your husband or wife, it doesn’t matter how much money you spend on the trappings of romance.
I could be wrong here, but it’s definitely holds true for me. After all, when we are truly fascinated by the one we chose to marry, everything else seems meaningless. No need for the box chocolates or overpriced roses that will wilt for the the week is over. Simply conscientiously choosing to be fascinated or intrigued with that person is very powerful. Pair this with guarding your heart from outside intruders, [ co-workers, workaholism, kids, toxic friendships, addictions ], is automatic way in making your marriage last through the common pitfalls of today’s society.
And that’s worth your time in practicing like money in the bank.
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